Are They Jealous?
A Narcissist can be bothered by the most minute things, and it appears out of nowhere. Their moods can be compared to Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
They think that they are superior to everyone else and they hate being corrected, when they get constructive criticism, or being wrong. Especially from a higher authority.
Competitive? Definitely! They hate to lose!
A Narcissist is like a child, wanting all the toys, when they get something new, this is their opportunity to brag about it too. Something they love to do. A lot.
They hate when people are late.
You will notice when they get behind the wheel, severe road rage! That can be incredibly scary!
They hate it when you are sick, it means that they have to take on the responsibility of caring for you as well as your children, if you have them. If your children get sick, the reaction is the same.
The Narcissist is not the focus; this makes them angry.
If you or your children have made any major accomplishments, this angers them to the point where they may belittle anything to try to upset you. A time in your life when you should be proud. Yes, they are not only jealous of you; they are also envious of your children.
Anytime you don’t pay attention to them, they get angry.
The emphasis should consistently be on them. Remember, they thrive on attention, adoration, admiration, and constant validation.
They get angry if you leave them alone, or when you ask for help, even to fix something. You will get excuses or a tantrum. Yet they make you dependent on them.
Early in the relationship, they were more than willing to help you, but as time went on, in their eyes, you became a burden to them, and that made them angry.
My motto was, if you want something done, figure it out and do it yourself.
A narcissist reacts with anger when they are exposed; they despise being discovered.
When you tell them No and set clear boundaries, going No Contact.
When you move on and are happy.
You are not asking for too much, they just offer you too little. The bare minimum.
Their irrational behavior makes you anxious and feel like you are constantly walking on eggshells or merely keeping the peace.
Their anger issues only get worse with age, along with their sense of entitlement or delusion. I did a post about this, The Aging Narcissist
Anyone experiencing Narcissistic Abuse may be familiar with this.
Please don’t blame yourself.
If you are in a Narcissistic Abusive situation, please seek immediate assistance by contacting your local police or domestic violence hotline.
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