The Truth Appears
Over time, as you learn about Narcissism, the emotional abuse you suffered, A clearer understanding emerges.
After a while, something just clicks! It was all a game to them, and you’ve had enough.
You understand that you were not the problem or the fixer of their past trauma, and not their Parent. Of course, the even bigger realization is that you were not equal partners.
To the Narcissist, you were only a supply source. You gave everything, love, attention, and you were there for them. What did you get in return?
This realization stirs up many emotions, and you may have found that trying to please the Narcissist has left you depleted both mentally and physically. That is the goal of the Narcissist.
The Bread Crumbing and the Narcissistic Fog were used to keep you confused. In the early stages of the relationship, things seemed off, but you didn’t recognize it as a form of abuse.
Now that they are out of your life, and the fog has lifted, you can do what makes you happy.
What the Narcissist never counted on was you getting stronger. Educating Yourself about Narcissistic Abuse
They may try to come around to see if they can manipulate you. If you are feeling bitter or angry towards them. Remember, this is not someone who genuinely loves or cares for you. They showed you all along how they really felt about you.
You look at them differently now, the games they played with you are over as far as you’re concerned.
It seems as though you are indifferent towards them; you show no emotion, provide no explanations, and share nothing about yourself or your personal life. To you, they feel like a stranger because the person you believed them to be was a lie. The mask they wore concealed their true feelings.
Learn to love yourself. Know how you want and expect to be treated, because you never want to experience Narcissistic Abuse ever again.
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